living togheter with a girlfriend

[Ready Ok FOE]

soo.... i was wondering

 

Has or is anyone living togheter with his girlfriend? Or considering, why?

 

I Imagine if i would get an appartment with my gf i would go nuts. I Have a busy life including working/school, more work for my own when i get home and fitness in the evening, inbetween some free time these are things i need to do on my own or with friends. But i feel like she is holding me up when i need to do my own things, by acting annoying or whatever girls do when they don't get what they want. She isn't very active unless it's things like going to a restaurant, cinema, or other fun but expensive trips

 

 

How do you guys handle this shit?

 

How would you handle living togheter if you ever thought about it?

[Allan]

Pretty sure 90% of the people on these forums haven't even touched a girl before.

 

But, I miss you leave your girlfriend and come to me baby

[1 Item]

Pretty sure 90% of the people on these forums haven't even touched a girl before.

 

But, I miss you leave your girlfriend and come to me baby

none of this even answered him.. well I guess leaving her would solve it LOL

 

 

Man if your worrying this much about moving in then its probably not good. That's all I got as input.

[Brenden]

Pretty sure 90% of the people on these forums haven't even touched a girl before.

 

But, I miss you leave your girlfriend and come to me baby

[Psilocybin]

yeah I currently am, we have shared an apartment for about 9 months now. It's all about creating a serious balance with your lifestyle and hers, but at the same time not losing your individuality and desires to accomplish that which your focused on. Hence don't become defined by the other person over time or vise versa. It's a serious decision to make though, it will likely either enhance a relationship or ags spec it. 

[Pixel Pigeon]

Only lived with one (for 3 years) so perhaps I just had a negative experience. I found it ruined a lot of the enjoyment of being with someone, rather than being happy to see her I was happy whenever she went to stay with her parents for a week. had a similar experience with the lesser active girlfriend so money ended up becoming a huge center of arguments since she never wanted to do anything that didn't end up costing something.

 

I never found a solution to the problem, I had a really severe problem occur in my life and ended up drinking heavily, eventually breaking up with her because I couldn't cope with her on top of everything. Good luck with your ventures.

Edited August 17, 2015 by Pixel Pigeon

[Kanye]

I'm in a 4 bed 4 bath apartment and my roommates gf moved in with us............. run unless you are serious with your gf. They are literally the worst couple I've ever seen. You cannot do anything, you cannot go anywhere, you cannot get a moment to breathe.

 

All they do is sit with each other, they sleep together then one gets up to shower and gets right back up the others ass. Once they try to go anywhere they get barraged with 30 questions and a why are you doing this why are you doing that. MAKE SURE YOU GUYS ARE SUPER SERIOUS WITH NO ISSUES/JEALOUSY ISSUES/WHATEVER ELSE ISSUES BEFORE ANYTHING.

 

my gf lives in the same apartment complex as me, but not the same apartment.... she knows her place.

Edited August 17, 2015 by Kanye

[Bjorn]

I have been living together since last January. As long as your girlfriend does not need your attention 24/7 and has a proper own life (work, college, friends) as well it is great having both a pretty busy life. We both work, go to college. I go to gym 4 or 5 times a week, she spends much time with girlfriends or on school.

 

However we both know that we have to and want to make time for eachother. We let eachother know when we have different plans.. it is fair and good. If you stop doing that, there is no point living together and you can question if you love her enough if you have other priorities over and over.

[A X 3]

Everyones going to tell you how it was for them.

But listen to me when i say this

Its a different experience with every relationship, every girl, every guy.

If it ends up going down the shitter then so be it, you gotta find out one day or another

[`Michael]

I stay with my girlfriend when I'm back at home, but that isn't very often ha

[Rolexx]

moving in with eachother is the ''next big step'' imo. I can't imagine moving into the same house as my gf, she wouldn't drive me crazy, I'd drive her crazy probably..

But I honestly think you guys need to just continue your life, don't expect her to be home 24/7 (same goes for you) just keep doing ur own thing, and when you have free time, enjoy time together. Also, be prepared to get into alot of small fights, because you know, sometimes girls get crazy af, and have the urge to yell at people.

Edited August 17, 2015 by Rolexx

[Thanos]

I have been living together since last January. As long as your girlfriend does not need your attention 24/7 and has a proper own life (work, college, friends) as well it is great having both a pretty busy life. We both work, go to college. I go to gym 4 or 5 times a week, she spends much time with girlfriends or on school.

 

However we both know that we have to and want to make time for eachother. We let eachother know when we have different plans.. it is fair and good. If you stop doing that, there is no point living together and you can question if you love her enough if you have other priorities over and over.

This pretty much sums up my thoughts on the matter. It only works if you both had individual things to take care of, otherwise one person will get clingy/dependant and that's an issue. And a piece of advice I got once was that you can always try moving in for two weeks during a holiday or something, but preferably when you're still doing your regular routine. You can find out pretty fast if it works or not.

[A Combo]

You should do it m8 if it doesnt work shes not the one

[Lolsor]

I touched @@Brenden

[Brenden]

It was weird when @@Lolsor moved in with me tbh, It was good though too because we got to wake up to each other every day, it was cute.

[Bradford]

That is a big step. I personally wouldn't live with any girl until I was 100% ready. I'm 23

[Dilbert]

Been living with my GF in an apartment for 5 months now. Can get annoying at times when fighting and what not cus little things start to piss you off. A lot of compromise, I had to stop playing rs significatly to spend more 1 on 1 with her. We both work and are home 99% of nights so we always sleep together. Its not bad once you get through a few months. You will make it work if you want to. Plus its nice getting sex every night.

[C H I L Z]

Just dont be at eachothers throats 24/7 u gotta do ur own things and go out with ur friends coz being with ur girlfriend 24/7 will put u in a mental home, if u both have a job or go college school or whatever u will be fine

[Josh|0MEGA]

Most people that have been around the community some time will know I am one to enjoy a good night out on the beers.

 

Several of my friends are now living with their girlfriends, some even engaged or married. The one problem some of them have is their not allowed out unless the other half is going out and sometimes they even expect you to stay in just to pick them up. Very rarely do they say go have a good evening il pick you up at 3am and take you to the kebab shop on the way back.

 

It's nice to know that your girl wants to spend lots of time with you but theres  also a step too far aka banning you from going nightclubs or telling you that you can't wear a certain cologne as it may attract other girls ( this is one of my friends girlfriends exact words ). He rarely gets out now.

 

I haven't had many relationships that have gone past a one night stand or food & back to someones place but in the ones I have had I'm too brutally honest to let them stop me doing what I want and telling them what I think ( probably why the longest was like a year ).

 

Relationships are give and take, sounds like your girl is just very attached to you and doesn't have many friends that do stuff? Maybe try introducing her to some of your friends girlfriends that she may get along with?

[So_easy99]

You dont go and live with a girl you are not sure about anyway.

 

If you are going to live with her just for the sake of it then just dont. If you want it to work out, you talk with her about those issues, she'll understand if she is a good women

[Luffy]

Pretty sure 90% of the people on these forums haven't even touched a girl before.

 

But, I miss you leave your girlfriend and come to me baby

If you feel that way about your girlfriend, shes not the one for you. 

Im moving in with my girl Nov - Dec and im looking forward to it. I want to spend all my free time with my gf? Maybe its different for me but I actually love my gf and want to spend more time with her. 

[Callum]

Nope live all on my lonesome

[Ghost_408]

What's a "girlfriend"?

[IC 3 D]

 

Pretty sure 90% of the people on these forums haven't even touched a girl before.

 

But, I miss you leave your girlfriend and come to me baby

If you feel that way about your girlfriend, shes not the one for you. 

Im moving in with my girl Nov - Dec and im looking forward to it. I want to spend all my free time with my gf? Maybe its different for me but I actually love my gf and want to spend more time with her. 

 

[W3`]

Most people that have been around the community some time will know I am one to enjoy a good night out on the beers.

 

Several of my friends are now living with their girlfriends, some even engaged or married. The one problem some of them have is their not allowed out unless the other half is going out and sometimes they even expect you to stay in just to pick them up. Very rarely do they say go have a good evening il pick you up at 3am and take you to the kebab shop on the way back.

ha! THIS EXACTLY with one of my friends who is marrying her next month. he had to leave in the middle of a league game cuz the fiance called to pick her up at 2am cuz the friends she was out with didn't want to drive down the highway for 15 minutes to drop her home in the next town. psh. realized that's why he was actually online that night.

Edited August 17, 2015 by W3