living togheter with a girlfriend

[Mortuls]

 She isn't very active unless it's things like going to a restaurant, cinema, or other fun but expensive trips

 

dont move in with gf yet.

 

saving you some time there bro.

 

all the best tho =]

[Flav0ur]

Depends how much you love her. Make sure you both do your own thing from time to time though

[Shoan]

Think i'd get bored of her fast if I'd see her face all day but thats just my opinion

[Hatton]

I lived with an ex girlfriend for a year or so. At first it was fine because it was a new experience both living away from our families, over time it just got fucking annoying though. Before hand she would moan about silly things, like other girls. As soon as we moved in she moaned about stupid shit like who's washing up, what's for dinner, turn the sports off, you annoy me when you come in drunk of a weekend etc... Had to just ditch her n move back in with family, good job I was only 20 at the time. It also got annoying as hell seeing her all the time and having to put up with girly shit on a daily basis instead of now and then.

[Fred]

you're like 17/18 you're both probably a bit too emotionally immature and inexperienced to live together, wait a bit till you're older mate

[Psycho]

Been living with my GF in an apartment for 5 months now. Can get annoying at times when fighting and what not cus little things start to piss you off. A lot of compromise, I had to stop playing rs significatly to spend more 1 on 1 with her. We both work and are home 99% of nights so we always sleep together. Its not bad once you get through a few months. You will make it work if you want to. Plus its nice getting sex every night.

It feels exactly the same for me just that ive been living togheter with mine for almost 2 years now. 

 

OnT: You will probably have to quit playing rs or play at max 1-3 hours a day with breaks if you live with your girl friend :P

[Coggy]

Depends on the girl, but for the most part its pretty good. There shouldn't be any downside as long as you are serious about the girl. You make things work as a couple, while still maintaining who you are as an individual.

[Adrenalized]

I have a GF of 4 year's and you will never get away from it your either spending money taking her out to do fun stuff or your being bitched at for playing scape at home while she wants you to spend the whole day watching tv and cuddling her. (not playing scape at all though that would be just rude of us.)

[4zs]

depends on how serious it is... and really how old you are, if you see yourself with her for a long time then do it, living together will make u guys closer or make it known that ur not meant to be, try it out man

[Lonnie]

If it not sure about living with the girl...then she ain't worth it time to begin with. Dump her and find another. In fact...find a women and not a girl...

[Ronald]

I have been living together since last January. As long as your girlfriend does not need your attention 24/7 and has a proper own life (work, college, friends) as well it is great having both a pretty busy life. We both work, go to college. I go to gym 4 or 5 times a week, she spends much time with girlfriends or on school.

 

However we both know that we have to and want to make time for eachother. We let eachother know when we have different plans.. it is fair and good. If you stop doing that, there is no point living together and you can question if you love her enough if you have other priorities over and over.

This. Been living together for over two years. Girlfriend works and goes to a different college and gym than I do. Living together is great, just don't become too attached. Keep your individuality, be you and do you.

[Tris]

 

I have been living together since last January. As long as your girlfriend does not need your attention 24/7 and has a proper own life (work, college, friends) as well it is great having both a pretty busy life. We both work, go to college. I go to gym 4 or 5 times a week, she spends much time with girlfriends or on school.

 

However we both know that we have to and want to make time for eachother. We let eachother know when we have different plans.. it is fair and good. If you stop doing that, there is no point living together and you can question if you love her enough if you have other priorities over and over.

This. Been living together for over two years. Girlfriend works and goes to a different college and gym than I do. Living together is great, just don't become too attached. Keep your individuality, be you and do you.

 

 

100% this. In the same situation.

[Wazzle]

Pretty sure 90% of the people on these forums haven't even touched a girl before.

 

What are you on about? I fondle this little slut all day all night https://gyazo.com/7e98b64dd3ade34bc697f3313ea1cef6

[zeg]

From personal experience, it started off amazing. At the time we were going out for about 3 and a half years and we were very interested in moving in together. We found an apartment not too far from where we work and attend University, so it was a no brainer option. Eventually, you'll go through those phases where things come up, as with every relationship. But In your particular scenario, it seems like it's really something you have to speak with your S/O about. But I can tell you now, If you're moving in with her for "just because" and your relationship turns sour (I'm not saying it will), it'll be a huge hassle with moving out. As others have said also, you need to find a happy median where you level doing your own thing, and doing things together ( if that makes sense ).

 

PS; 1 year since we moved in and going strong.

Edited September 15, 2015 by zeg

[Amusing]

Depends on her personality but look at the bright side , atleast you dont have to chase pussy

[Amusing]

Depends on her personality but look at the bright side , atleast you dont have to chase pussy

[Briggsy]

yeah man it sounds like you're not 100% sure about the move..

In my experience, it would have pissed me off to live with my ex and would have ended it sooner.

It's bad if she doesn't have any other hobbies, otherwise she'll just be attached to you 24/7.. that's the annoying part

[Scaf]

im thinking about moving in with my gf, just do your own shit and then spend a bit of time with everynight should keep her happy

[Snooo]

I broke up with my girlfriend and i need to tell you something that 90% of the world of "men" know. Do not move in with your girlfriend unless you guys are very serious and you seriously love her and want to go really far with her, because all girls are mentally fkn retarded no matter what you think.

 

P.S if you move in with her and she complains about everything and it becomes arguements over little things like "O my fucking god you put a water bottle in the garbage it goes in the recycle bin.." And she just complains and argues instead of just taking it out and putting it in the recycle bin. I STRONGLY suggest you ditch her. Thats how my brothers relationships going atm :p

Edited September 24, 2015 by Snooo